Love is not possessive. If you like the moon, you
can't just take it down and put it in your basin. But
the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words,
when you love a person, you can use another
method of possessing the person. Let him become
a permanent memory in your life. If you really love
a person, you must love him for what he is. Love
him for his good points, and the bad. You can't
wish for him to become like what you like him to
be just because you love him. If he can't change to
become what you like him to e, you don't love him
anymore. When you really love a person, you
cannot find a reason why you love him, you only
know that no matter when and where, good mood
or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be
with you.
Real love is when two people can go through the
toughest problems without asking for promises or
listing criteria. In a relationship, you have to put in
effort and give in at times, and not always be on
the receiving end. Being away from each other is
a type of test. If the relationship isn't strong, then
you can only admit defeat. Real love will never
become hate.